Saving a marriage takes work
October 6, 2008 on 5:15 am | By admin | In HomeIt took a lot of work to get yourself into this mess and it will take an equal if not more work to get yourself out. Some great ways to save a marriage include talking in a whole new environment that has no associations with either of you. This builds a new canvas to paint on. Then you have to make sure you don’t in any way neglect to take the blame, although this is more about responsibility, your partner may feel better calling it blame. You must be comfortable accepting the blame at least for now so she/he will open up and admit to their part. They won’t do this as long as they feel you aren’t admitting your part. Healing begins when the open communication is restored.